When I first came to university
I knew nobody. From my graduating class I was the only student to accept an
offer at the University of Sydney, making my initial few weeks on campus quite
isolating. I have often told people I did not have any friends in first year,
I would instead read a lot.
Despite this, I did join the
ACCESS Program at my first OWeek, but I used my membership solely for discounts. I did
not sign up to any clubs or societies, nor did I attend USU events – this did not happen until 2011 when on a whim I signed up to
volunteer at OWeek. After that I propelled myself into the USU and into every
aspect of campus life. That year I joined my first club, got involved in every program
the USU had to offer, started a club, met one of my best friends who I would
later direct OWeek with, got heavily involved in student politics and activism,
and fell in love for the first time – with a dude. I know with utter
certainty that it was the University of Sydney Union and the positive
environment it creates for queer identifying and questioning students that gave
me the confidence to tell my family and friends that I am bi-sexual - it helped
me to accept and shape who I am.
I had always struggled with
my sexuality; during high school I hid who I really was, and actively lied to
everyone about who I had a crush on at any given time. I went to a very
conservative school, and the only openly gay student was frequently
bullied – he ended up dropping out because he was often
beaten up. I feared my life mirroring his. Because of this I had no
confidence in myself. I saw my sexuality as something to hide and be ashamed
of.
Thankfully I no longer feel
this way. But I am lucky - not everyone has had the opportunities I have been
afforded. This is why events like the USU’s annual Pride Week are so important.
I am bi-sexual and proud! |
Bringing Pride Week to as many students as
possible is central to creating an inclusive community at this university, both
for students who are queer identifying or queer questioning, but also for
students who have never really thought about what it means to be queer. Now coming into its third year, the USU's Pride Week is an event
that brings students together to discuss issues facing the queer community, come
up with solutions, and celebrate the positive wins those before us achieved so
that we might have equality and acceptance.
From Tuesday next week you
will see the campus transform for three days to showcase everything great about
the queer community. From forums to swing dancing,
panel discussions to queer beers - there is literally something for everyone.
For more information about the events held during Pride Week, head over to: http://usu.edu.au/Bars-Events/Festivals/Pride-Festival-(1).aspx
I stand by my push to make Pride Week an annual festival within the USU's calendar of events, and cannot wait for next week!
In Glitter,
ROBBY MAGYAR
HONORARY TREASURER
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